So, there you are, in the home stretch of intercourse with your partner and you feel that impossible-to-ignore swell of stimulation from your loins as you pound away. You know you're about to pop your top in a few minutes (no matter how many times you count backwards from 1,476), but you want her to come before you. Unless you've read our tricks and tips below, you might just beat her to the climax (insert line here about rolling over or flicking on the tube).
Plan way ahead.
Unless you're hooking up for the first time with the neighbor you've lusted after for 5 years, take your time in the beginning because the casanovas know women love a slow entry to love making. Kiss her, massage her and tease her. Whisper a few dirty words in her ear and spend time in the secret parts of her body. She needs to be wet before her clothes even start dropping to the floor.
Get your first shot over with
If you've eaten your vitamins, and feel you can blow two shots on your session, then you've got an advantage. Your second orgasm will take longer to happen and help you last longer during sex, giving her more time to have an orgasm.Be a man.
Use your tongue.
Before you rush into the doggie style position, limber up your tongue (yeah, the same one you abuse sports teams with) and put it to work on her nipples, tummy and pussy. Yes gentlemen, you have a mission to get her seriously pre-heated with at least one good orgasm with your oral expertise. Tip - give her oral just before you enter her so she's primed for orgasm right from the moment you start doing your magic grind.
Pull out and get down!
If you're pumping away and you feel she's not on track to come before you, then pull out and dive in for a good 15 second tongue-lashing on her clitoris. It'll give you a break, and help her get more turned on for your next round. Repeat as required.Have her help
Some women are apprehensive to masturbate during sex. Guide her fingertips to her clit and encourage her to work herself while you work her. You've seen it in porn for a reason - it works!
Find her favorite position
Yeah, yeah, so you love her on top because you get to handle her delicious boobs and butt while she rides you like a cowboy. Save it for later and focus on positions she get most turned on by. Luvloop readers all tell us the love it most "from behind", but ask her what feels the best or turns her on the most and then try that position the most.
Get a toy
Put aside any notion that you'll be left alone Friday night flipping channels if you let a sex toy into the room. You can score some serious points with a tiny bullet vibrator you or she can hold against her clit or backdoor while you do your pile driving. No matter what, women love warm flesh over cold plastic, but the two combined can drive her to screams.
Be a bit on an animal
Guys who just lean back and thrust away miss out stimulating their ladies to a frenzied orgasm with some simple caveman moves. Do to her what she loves that's a bit naughty. Spanking, pulling hair, pinching or dirty talk. Give it to her with authority and be a man (before you roll over and start snoring).So, there you go gents. Give it a try one thing at a time and see how she responds. Having her tighten on you when she comes will probably send you over the edge, and you'll both collapse in a heap of happiness.
by Adrie Santos Image by x-art


