What's better than a night of unbridled passion? An entire month! With 30 sexy tips to rock his world (and yours!), you can ensure that this be the hottest month ever. From tricks for better oral, to sex toy surprises—these tips are sure to inspire a month that neither of you will ever forget! Now get out your agenda and pencil these in because these are daily tasks that you won't want to miss…
Tip 1- Surprise him with a sexy movie night—and I'm not talking about your everyday romantic-comedy! Dim the lights low, serve up some sexy finger foods on the coffee table; strawberries, whipped cream, maybe even some champagne to set the mood. Then pop in an erotic DVD and curl up together on the couch and watch your mates eyes light up! Chances are you won't even make it to the end of the first scene before he's ready to show his gratitude for your hot surprise!
Tip 2- Though you have probably heard this one before, it remains a tried and true fave among men; enjoy a mint or two (Altoids seem to work best) before orally pleasuring your man. The peppermint oil in them will send cool and tingly vibes along his sensitive penis, increasing the sensation for a truly memorable blowjob!
Tip 3- Take your mate out for a romantic dinner and somewhere between the main course and dessert; surprise him with the remote control to the pair of vibrating panties that you're wearing. Allow him to control your pleasure from as far as 12 feet away! Enjoy a mind blowing orgasm while other diners enjoy their meals, unaware of the sexy secret that you two are sharing…
Tip 4- Help him unwind after a stressful day at work with an erotic massage. With a vast assortment of oils and lotions available, you can customize this massage to knead away the residue of even the most hectic day. Get out flavored oil and get naked. Start with the usual; the neck, back and shoulders and soon the sumptuous feel of the warm oil and skin to skin contact will have you sliding your hands along all of the parts—naughty bits encouraged! With flavored oil, you can go from a regular massage to an oral therapy!
Tip 5- Something as simple as slipping on his condom could be all you need to stir up the animal within. Protection is a part of sex that is usually done in haste and soon forgotten, but why should it be? Why not consider it an extension of foreplay, and make the most of it? I recommend a long and leisurely lick of his shaft, followed by rolling the condom onto his erect cock in the same slow and sultry pace, all the while keeping a firm grasp of his testicles with your free hand and holding his gaze with your naughty grin. Sexy!
Tip 6- While most women these days own a vibrator, dildo or some other type of sex toy, many are still under the misconception that they are to be used alone. With men being the more visually stimulated of the sexes, why put on a show that he won't soon forget? Have him meet you in the bedroom to find you laying back and enjoying your favorite toy? He will surely want to join in, but - not so fast! Ask him to take a seat (a pre-positioned chair is a great idea) and just watch as you stimulate yourself for his viewing pleasure.
Tip 7- Make anything an instant celebration by having some champagne; promotion, birthday, or just a night away form the kids can be made into your own sensual little soiree. Fill you mouth with some chilled bubbly and go down on him, being careful to not spill the champagne. Holding it in as you keep a firm grasp of his penis with your mouth, swirl your tongue about, causing the cool bubbles to caress his sensitive skin and offer up a fizzy sensation that will surely tease and please! Note: he can return the favor by using the same technique on you!
Tip 8- Sexy Story Time… At the end of the day, once you have retired to bed with your book for some bed time reading, why not share a story? Nuzzle in close and read an erotic story to each other? Have different ideas as to what's sexy? Pick up a collection of erotic stories by several authors where you're bound to find something to suit both of your sexual tastes.
Tip 9- For the adventurous, how about picking up a small vibrator for you that can also be used on him? Have him stand up as you go down, teasing him with your tongue along the way, and once your lips are wrapped around his cock, send unexpected shivers of delight through him as you press the vibrator along his perineum for a truly pleasant surprise.
Tip 10- Another one for you more adventurous couples: Purchase a children's inflatable pool and a plastic painters tarp to put underneath it and fill it with oil—yes really! Mineral oil works best and is probably your cheapest option, but, keep in mind that it is not compatible with latex condoms. Once your pool is filled, get naked and dive in, and let the slippery mess take over. The slipping and sliding, combined with your body heat will turn this into a truly hot and sexy event!
Tip 11- Taking a long drive out to the country? Maybe just driving over to the local store? Shock him with some impromptu hand action, but I'm not just talking a regular wanking, be prepared with some warming lotion for added pleasure. Even just some hand cream from your purse will make take this hand job to a new height.
Tip 12- With controlled force being one of the highest rated elements in adult fantasies, how about a little mild bondage to impress his wild side? With several kits available that include restraints, feather ticklers and blindfold; you can tease him to the best orgasm ever. Have him lie there; bound and blindfolded while you shower his body with tickles, licks and whatever else you desire, while implementing a no touching rule on his part. The blindfold will help to heighten his other senses, leaving him vulnerable for the tease of his life!
Tip 13- A simple and proven favorite is dirty talk. Whether telling him how ‘big and hard his dick is' during sex, or brushing past him at the next family picnic and whispering ‘I can't wait to get you in bed', men respond very well to all oral stimulation! So go ahead; talk dirty! Too shy, or don't know what to say? There are several books and articles out there dedicated to talking dirty.
Tip 14- This tip is definitely for both of you; use a vibrating cock ring. By placing one of these little adult toys around the base of his erection during intercourse, you can maximize his hard on while also sending sweet sensations through his shaft and stimulate your clitoris, all while enjoying wonderful penetration.
Tip 15- Encourage him to cheat - with you! By wearing a wig and changing your appearance with make up, he gets to enjoy the thrill of sex with a stranger and you will reap the rewards of that thrill! Take it up a notch with all out roll playing; the john and his hooker, the teacher and student, etc.
Tip 16- Has to be up early for work, does he? Were you both too tired for sex the night before? Wake up minutes before him, and help get him up with some lovin'. Leave a trail of soft kisses from his neck down to his most private bits to help wake him up. If your man is, well; already ‘up', then take advantage of his early AM erection by straddling him and easing him into you. A good morning indeed!
Tip 17- Leave a naughty surprise in his briefcase or lunch bag; Sexy Coupons! A little paper and marker goes a long way when you make coupons for things such as "One Blow Job—Redeemable Tonight" or "Three Sexy Massages for One Kiss"…you get the idea.
Tip 18- How about buying him a naughty gift? It could be anything from a sexy DVD to a sex toy for men. All men do the deed solo from time to time, so why not show your enthusiasm and confidence by giving something to help maximize his experience! He's sure to love it and you!
Tip 19- This tip came from a highly sexed male friend of mine; wrap a ‘Fruit Roll Up' around his cock and suck and lick away at it; challenging yourself to keep on going till there is nothing left. The sensation of the tasty treat against his erection is indescribable, as is watching you work so diligently at trying to reach the true treat within!
Tip 20- Pamper him with a luxurious bath. This is a treat that few men ever bother to indulge in, so make it easy by having one ready and waiting. Try some scented oils, some candles to set the mood (a great perk; candlelight makes everyone's skin look great and hides any imperfections that you may be shy about) and a nice loofah for a therapeutic scrub down. Let him lie back while you lather him up, lingering on the most important parts and finish by joining him in the tub (consider waterproof sex toys for added zing!).
Tip 21- Pick up a copy of the Kama Sutra or any other book of sexual positions and take turns opening the book to random pages and trying the positions that the book opens to. This will prove to be a fun and sexy way to spend an afternoon.
Tip 22- Meet the ‘frenulum'! The frenulum is the super sensitive spot on the underside of the penis where the shaft meets the head. This spot is packed with nerve endings and when stimulated can really increase his pleasure to amazing heights. Give his special spot some extra attention by lingering there with your tongue or even a small vibrator.
Tip 23- Mirrors, mirrors and more mirrors! There is nothing sexier than watching you in the throws of passion! Place a large mirror next to the bed—or wherever you are having sex for that matter and position yourself accordingly to get the maximum view of your action. Place one behind you and ride him so you can both enjoy the view as you slide on and off of him. An extra tip: find a local ‘no-tell motel' and ask if they have any mirrored rooms! Though tacky, these gems, undecorated since the 70's often have atleast one room with the mirrored ceilings—very sexy!
Tip 24- Get naughty with the camera by taking pictures of yourself in the buff and leaving them for him in places where he'll appreciate the distraction; his briefcase, next to his dinner plate when you'll be home late or on his pillow as a prelude into the evening ahead, or his gym bag to pump some extra adrenaline into his workout!
Tip 25- An alternative to ‘movie night' would be ‘game night'. Buy an adult game, it can even be as simple as Sexy Dice, and settle in for a night of fun! Another sexy option; play naked Twister for a hot spin on a wholesome classic!
Tip 26- If your mate is in a position to have some alone time on the phone or computer at work, serve up some phone or cybersex as a nice break to his work day. Tell him what your wearing, or if able, IM him and turn on that webcam to show him! Talk as if you are with him right then and there, describing each erotic detail of the delicious things that you are doing to him. If he has the luxury of his own office, complete with a locking door; encourage him to stroke himself and take him to a climax that will carry him through the day.
Tip 27- This one may not seem like a trick to please him, but trust me—it will! How about a sexy challenge to get to his primal male instinct? Challenge: Bet you can't find my G-spot! Offer him a prize for finding your magic spot, though watching you writhe in ecstasy will prove more than enough! Whether he tries the finger in the ‘come hither' position or a sex toys designed for G-spot play, you will both enjoy watching (and feeling!) him rise to this challenge.
Tip 28- Model a whipped cream bikini for him. Get naked, and lie back with a can off whipped cream in hand and start designing your very own edible bikini! Spray your breasts and then a teeny tiny patch over your pubic area and invite him to to have a look and then a lick, and another and another…
Tip 29- Take him on a hot outing by wearing something made for easy access (skipping the panties is a great start), taking his hand and leading him somewhere out of direct public view so you can have your way with him. Public sex is one of the most common fantasies among both men and women, so why not enjoy the thrill of doing it in a park, at the beach, on the hood of your car or a public washroom, all the while trying not to get caught. There is an exhibitionist is all of us, so go ahead and grant yourselves the chance to live out this fanatasy.
Tip 30- Finally, the best tip of all is to be confident in your own sexuality and open yourself to your partner. There is nothing sexier to a man than a woman who is self assured and comfortable in her own skin. Free yourself of inhibitions and explore the sensuality that waits around every curve and bump.
By Adrie Santos
