Scoring a threesome is all in the way you approach the idea with your gal. Truth is; most women have fantasized about a menage a trios at one point or another, but very few are likely to admit it in fear of being perceived as slutty - a.k.a. not the marryin' kind. Then there is also the jealousy factor to contend with once she gets wind of the fact that you want to plow another woman, which is why your approach will have to be a delicate and well phrased one.

First off, a good way to get into the topic is to ask her about her fantasies and listen - really listen as she talks to you. Keep an open mind and avoid a reaction that might make her feel silly and clam up. Once her innermost fantasies are flowing, ask her is she's ever fantasized about being with another woman and mention that you've fantasized about seeing her satisfied by a woman and how there was something very erotic about it. Throw in how you love to see her turned on and you'll seem totally selfless!

I can't stress to you how important your wording will be here. For the love of God, please avoid saying things like: "You're best friends got a hot little ass! Wouldn't you like to tap that? Let's have a threesome!" or "I've been a little bored with our sex lately..."

Instead try: "I would love to share you with another woman if that turns you on" or "It would be so hot to watch another woman shower you with kisses and satisfy you".It may seem corny (and far from the truth) but you have to make her feel as if its all about her and that your desire isn't so much having two women at once (ha!), but more about giving her maximum pleasure.

Another tip: mentioning names of women you have in mind is a definite no-no, as the last thing you want is to let her see that you've been thinking of a specific woman in a sexual way.

The more comfortable you can make her with the idea and convince her that this isn't only about you, the higher your chances of scoring a threesome. And really, would it be so bad to have a front row seat to some lesbian play? I'm sure joining in will just be a given, so you score either way!

by Adrie Santos